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If you have a loved one with epilepsy for whom you provide care, especially a child, you know that the right information and treatment plan are important for living life with epilepsy on your own terms. With today’s advanced epilepsy medications, you can expect excellence in preventing seizures and minimal side effects.

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The following question-and-answer sections are meant to address the topics on caregivers’ minds regarding epilepsy in children, teens, or the elderly.


Children With Epilepsy

Will my child outgrow epilepsy?

Some children will still have epilepsy when they grow up and live a very full life. For some kids, seizures can go away when they get older. It is hard to predict. It depends on the kind of epilepsy they have. But there is good news. A lot of people with epilepsy may not have any more seizures as long as they keep taking the right kind of medicine.

Is it safe for my child to play with friends?

Most children with epilepsy can do all the things their friends do. That includes playing baseball, soccer, and other sports. How controlled their seizures are will help you decide what sports and games are okay to play.

Should I inform my child’s teachers?

Generally speaking, you have to make a personal decision about which of the people in your child’s life should know and then tell them. It is recommended that you speak to your school administration, teachers, coach, and nurse about your child’s epilepsy. Explain to them what happens when a seizure occurs and what they can do to help your child in that event. Be sure to check in midway through the school year to provide any new information and give teachers and staff a chance to update you on what they have observed.

Can my child still play sports?

Talk to your neurologist or epileptologist before enrolling your child in any physical activities. The short answer is yes, your child can play sports.

Here are some tips:

  • If seizures usually occur at a certain time, plan activities when seizures are less likely to happen
  • Have your children avoid extreme heat when exercising and keep them hydrated with plenty of water to reduce seizure risks

Teens With Epilepsy

Should my teen drive?

Every state has its own laws on epilepsy and driving. Most states say that you must be free of seizures for a certain period of time, in most states 6 to 12 months. Check with the Division of Motor Vehicles in your state to find out about your local laws.

Is dating okay?

Many teens worry that their date will not want to go out with them if they find out about their epilepsy. That could happen. But honesty is always the best policy. It is also a good idea that friends and boyfriends/girlfriends of your teen know what to expect so they will not be alarmed in the case of a seizure and can help in that event.

Can playing video games cause a seizure?

For most people with epilepsy, the answer is no. But a small number of people can have a seizure when they see flashing lights. Talk to your neurologist or epileptologist for more specifics about your teen’s condition.

Elderly Persons With Epilepsy

Is it okay for older people with epilepsy to live alone?

Although there are always exceptions, older people with epilepsy who are otherwise in good health and whose mental abilities are unaffected can usually continue to live independently.

Of course, there are risks associated with seizures when people live alone. However, making certain changes in the home can reduce them.

For example, living in a house or apartment which does not have stairs reduces the risk of injury from falls. Injury from falls is also less likely if the home has carpeted floors, padded furniture, and protective padding around the corners of tables. See Epilepsy in Your Everyday Life for more at-home safety tips.

Someone with fairly frequent seizures may want to carry a portable phone or beeper so that they can call for help from any part of the house.

Some older people living alone prefer to work out a simple code, like a flowerpot in a window, or a shade that is lowered and raised according to a schedule, to let friends and neighbors know that all is well or to alert them if there are problems.

Are older people with epilepsy allowed to drive? Older people with epilepsy whose seizures are fully controlled with epilepsy medication (and who meet other licensing requirements) can qualify to drive in all parts of the United States.

In most states they will have to show that they have met their state’s seizure-free requirements (usually between 3 months and 1 year, depending on the state) and provide any required doctor’s statements to the Department of Motor Vehicles.